We live in a highly advanced technological savvy world and when it comes to our kids and social media there are boundaries that need to be set that oftentimes remain a mystery to good-intentioned parents. Celebrity mom Brooke Burke is not alone in her quest to find social media balance in her household.
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These are the tips that Burke shared on her website about managing technology in her home.
- We take tech breaks. I’m concerned about too much tech. I don’t let my children lose themselves in their phones when I’m driving them. I never want my carpooling duties to feel like chauffeur service. I know I can’t make my kids converse but I can make them take their heads out of cyber space.
- I do NOT allow phones on any dining table, at restaurants or home – big pet peeve of mine! That’s our time to connect and family meals are invaluable to me.
- I try to monitor late next texting, face timing, and computer entertainment because research shows that light depletes serotonin – not good for the zzz’s. My daughter’s friends don’t come over as much because they can visit virtually with each other via the computer. Weird, but that’s life now.
- I also try to understand the apps and accounts that my kids are using like SnapChat so I can check theirs randomly. Occasional monitoring is important and so is experienced dialogue, meaning I know how it all works – knowledge is golden. They think it’s cool when I understand their world and I think its valuable to do so.
- I don’t let my kids make requests, ask for favors or express their needs with short text abbreviations. Like…. “can L STN, LUSM TYL GG” which means “can Lilly spend the night? Love you so much – Talk To You Later – Gotta Go.” It’s cute but I need a “Hi Mom” at least, and hopefully a phone call to arrange plans. I’m still the person that needs to pick up the phone and feel the sentiment though tonality.
- When all my children are home, I shut my phone off at night, and regularly use the moonlight feature for “do not disturb” so I don’t get email or text alerts on my iPhone – too annoying and I feel that I am allowed some personal space and do not need to be accessible 24/7 (except to my family).
Visit ModernMom.com to read Burke’s full thoughts.
Great post! I learned something new today. Thanks for sharing!